I think the lines between believing, espousing, and wanting to enforce upon others are blurrier than most people think.

I'll clarify that my usage of the term "magical" before is interchangeable with the word "illogical". Everybody thinks their own thoughts and beliefs are logical, and therefore nobody thinks any of their own thoughts are illogical or magical. At some level, everybody thinks their own thoughts make sense.

But people's beliefs are what compel their actions. And sometimes, those beliefs compel people to be over zealous in espousing or enacting their beliefs in ways that affect other people.

So you can't expect people to be able to draw a line between which believes they can or can't propose as behaviors for other people. Because, in fact, there is no such line. Or rather, every person would draw that line in a different place relative to their own beliefs.

Therefore, the only thing we can do is to get better at receiving and giving logical critique and feedback on each other's beliefs - with the ultimate hope being that we simply get better at believing the same things as each other, and coming to consensus.