Gaslighting, as I understand it, is when you make someone feel crazy by lying about facts. That's not what I've done here.

What I have done is offer a different interpretation of Teed's article than Rebecca. That's what we are all here for on Medium after all, right? To give and receive feedback on our interpretations of things.

There is a world of difference between disagreeing with what someone says, and telling them that they shouldn't have spoken in the first place. I'll only ever do the former, but you and Rebecca seem to be doing the latter. And I think that's a very bad precedent to set in a public forum.

Do you understand my concern?